It’s all about perception. You can make your life really beautiful, and business successful no matter how others think it is!
Perception! It is a great thing and it is something that plays a critical role in stabilising our emotions.
So what is perception? It is the way in which something is regarded, understood or interpreted.
Anything negative can be made positive merely with perception. It is such a powerful thing.
And you have the very power to control or manipulate your perception.
Even if you see something the negative way in the beginning, you can train or tell your mind to perceive the same thing positively and can succeed with it.
Can you see how powerful this is?
You can change your whole life into either happiness or misery just with perception.
Things happen around us all day and they greatly affect our mood.
How our boss yells, how our kids create mess, how cranky our room mate is – all these things affect our mood. But how we react to it matters a lot.
And that’s what decides whether we are going to spend the next few minutes in a calm, cool state or stressed out, in anger and create a complete mess of emotions.
You can be a very positive entrepreneur just with your perception. Perceive things the right way, the positive way.
It helps a lot with minimising your stress levels. And it is great for your business!
When you are cool and calm you can accomplish a lot in your business – I see that as a big plus.
Which is why I try to perceive things the positive way.
A calm, cool Jane can accomplish a lot than a stressed out Jane.
Not just that, it is great for my personal health too. I see myself as a very important asset in my business.
So, that I stay hale and healthy and in good mental health is so important to my business.
On the other hand, perceiving things the positive way makes your life a lot beautiful.
No matter how bad the situations can be and no matter what others tell you, you can make your life look beautiful just with the right kind of perception.
So how can you perceive things positively and make your business and life beautiful?
Make lots of positive affirmations
I do this everyday even when I don’t encounter anything negative. And when I encounter anything negative I immediately take some time alone and say some affirmative
Don’t pity yourself. And don’t expect sympathy from others. Doing so will only result in a “pathetic” you.
This in turn makes you perceive everything in a rather negative way.
Avoid the should
There should be no “should”s in fact. A “should” imposes quite some pressure and negativity.
When you impose a “should” on yourself, you will start to perceive everything as something that pressurise you.
Take things easy. You don’t have to worry about everything under the sun!
Don’t stock up on emotions. You see everything through what you have in stock – the emotions you build up inside yourself reflect on everything you perceive.
So whenever possible, vent out your sad, anger and any negative emotions. May be you could you have a best friend to vent out things.
Or you could write things down on a paper. Just find out what works for you.
Vent out and have a clean state of mind. This lets you to perceive things positively.
You should find a way
As Marie Forleo says, everything is figureoutable.
So you just have to find a solution to any problems or obstacles you see, rather than complaining or feeling stressed out about anything in life.
You are the biggest asset in your business – there, I said it again. So you have to spend time (and perhaps money) on pampering yourself now and then.
A happy you means a productive you.
Pampering takes away all the stress and makes your mind so lite and happy. You also get to appreciate yourself for all the little and big achievements you have made in business in life.
No matter what others say about your life – may be you are having a hard time. May be there’s something that’s bothering you.
Remember nothing is permanent. And learn to perceive the positive things in any situation.
No matter what the numbers say in your business – you should perceive things the positive way.
Such a perception is very crucial to keep yourself motivated and to run your business.
But don’t be also blind when things don’t work out as you expected.
Tell yourself that you’ve learned a lesson, move on with a new strategy and make things work.